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Discrimination in all forms is ignorant

Apr 12th

Posted by BlueEyes in Disability

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The most disheartening part of this:

Today, Equal Pay Day, marks the wage gap: the fact that full-time women workers earn 77 percent of what full-time male workers do. One major reason is job segregation by sex. Jobs themselves are gendered, such that women have a tendency to enter feminized occupations and men have a tendency to enter masculinized occupations. How severe is job segregation by sex? In 2010, the Institute for Women’s Policy Research reported that about about 4 in 10 women work in jobs that are 75 percent female; the reverse is true for men.

(Via Separate And Unequal : Ms Magazine Blog.)

at least to me, is the mere fact that we even have an “equal pay day.” It should not be necessary. At all.

I’m amazed on an almost daily basis that in this, the 21st century, we still have such things as this going on. I am amazed and disheartened that there are still such prejudices and inequalities.

I feel the same way when I hear racist comments. Pretty much anytime I hear some tea partier open their mouth. I just don’t get it. I never really have, but the older I get, the less I understand it.

I’ve written about religious-based discrimination against gays and lesbians before. I’ve written about the things people say about disabled people. And even about the outright racist things even our politicians — mostly tea party folks, but not exclusively — say.

It’s the 21st century for cryin’ out loud!

But back to the main topic at hand. Equal pay. Why is this so hard to do? Since it’s mostly men in charge still (sad but true, really) I challenge all my fellow men — but the ones with actual power and influence, unlike me — to do something about it. If you’re a manager, go through your organization. See if women are paid less. If they are, FIX IT. Take an honest look at the kinds of jobs you provide for men vs. women. Does your organization hire women as “Administrative Assistants” and men for other jobs? Then find a way to pay your administrative assistance more.

Believe me, the admins run the place. Don’t believe me? Try this little experiment. Piss off the admin. I mean seriously piss off the admin. Then see how much gets done. Even if you’re the CEO, don’t imagine for a minute that you can do it without your admin(s). If you’re nodding your head, and your admin is a woman, then give her a massive pay increase. Commensurate with the power and influence and level of control she actually has.

There is simply no rational reason that there is a pay-gap between men and women. For the same work, for the same education, there should be no pay gap at all. From a Mom’s Rising email:

“Women will never make as much money as men…God made Adam first, and so women would always be second to men.” “If you would wear lower cut shirts…., you would probably get more pay.” [1]

Men say these things at work? Really? Dunno, but my reaction would be to a) record the comment and then b) punch the offending neanderthal squarely in the throat. There is no excuse for such things. NONE. EVER.


 


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Reprehensibly Cowardly Thugishness is Ugly and Mean

Apr 11th

Posted by BlueEyes in Life

I’ve written about bullying before here, here, and most notably here, but after watching this

GRITtv: John Fugelsang: Stop Calling it Bullying

I’ve come up with my new term for bullying, complete with its own handy acronym: REprehensible Cowardly Thugs are Ugly and Mean. RECTUM. That’s what I’m going to call bullies from now on. RECTUMs.

I hope it catches on.


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A Big White Pickle

Apr 2nd

Posted by BlueEyes in Animals

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You can’t tell, but he has a little “micro goatee” under his chin that is adorable. And when you scratch his cheeks, he furrows his nose so much he gets a deep crease down the middle. He’s also got one blue eye and one yellow eye. And two sharp 90° turns in his tail so it looks like a periscope going by.

Yes, he’s flawed. But he’s perfect. He’s Pickles, Our Big White Cat.


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I’m Tired from Email

Apr 1st

Posted by BlueEyes in Politics

I’ve been writing and responding to email all day using gmail motion and I feel like I’ve run a marathon!

I’m not sure this is as good an idea as google says it is, but I’m sure we’ll all get used to it someday.

Introducing Gmail Motion


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Blah Blah Blah, Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah

Mar 31st

Posted by BlueEyes in Funny

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This is actually more intelligible than a conversation with a Glenn Beck listener when you get right down to it.

Ok, admit it, you laughed.


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I Pay My Taxes

Mar 30th

Posted by BlueEyes in Politics

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So I pay my taxes. I don’t even grumble about it. It’s my duty — even my patriotic duty — as a citizen to do so. There is no Interstate Highway Fairy. No FAA Fairy, No magic Leprechaun that brings pots of gold to pay for vital programs. It’s my country. I pay for it. And I don’t complain about it like the Tea Party “Patriots” that seem to think everything should be free.

What I AM going to complain about, and complain about loudly and continuously, is those that do not pay their taxes. Like, for instance, General Electric. That’s right, GE. And not only does GE pay no income tax on it’s over $14 billion in profits last year, but it turns out that GE is the new face of the Welfare Queen. They not only didn’t pay any Income Tax, they actually got $3.2 billion in money BACK from the Federal Government.

So, if that’s how things work, then I want my taxes back. And I want a refund of 60% of my net salary, too.

No, I don’t. I really don’t. But what I do want is for GE to give back the $3.2 billion, and pay, say, 25% of their $14.2 billion in profits in income tax. 25% seems fair. More than fair, actually, since they rightfully should be in the top tax bracket. So I’m cutting them some slack, really.

And before you start saying that making GE pay its fair share of taxes would be some sort of “job killer” keep in mind that GE has been doing just fine killing jobs here in good old America all on its own, with a 60% refund on it’s net profits and no taxes.

I think Jon Stewart said it best, frankly:

Too bad the other ‘news’ channels haven’t paid much attention.


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Bullies are bullies, no matter where they act out

Mar 29th

Posted by BlueEyes in Life

This statement:

“People who believe that cruelty is an acceptable means to channel interpersonal conflict, often suffer from severe narcissism with an antisocial element,” she says.

[From Dying Girl Kathleen Edward Cyberbullied by 33-Year-Old Neighbor: Why? - Health Blog - CBS News]

Sums it all up. Having been through a rather extreme case of this myself, I am here to tell you that the other people involved were most certainly suffering from severe narcissism with anti-social elements. In spades. But mostly they are just immature, scared, angry little people without self-control, compassion, or the courage to say/do these things in real life, so they hide behind their computers where they feel ‘safe’ and ‘tough.’

But the case referenced above is way over the top. A 33 year-old adult bullying a dying 7 year old is beyond the pale. The article calls it ‘cyberbullying’ but it was going on in the little girl’s driveway, so it was not ‘cyber’ in nature. It was just flat-out bullying. And the other neighbors that saw this going on and did nothing to stop it, like in another previous post, should be just as culpable.


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Oklahoma City Remembered

Mar 29th

Posted by BlueEyes in Life

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It was in June of 1996, as I was moving from New Mexico to North Carolina, that I stopped by the site of the Murrah Federal Building in Oklahoma City, OK. There was no building there anymore. The memorial hadn’t been built yet. It was just a field covered in grass and weeds surrounded by a chain link fence. It was a quiet and drizzly morning, grey and sad, which seemed appropriate. There were no other people around. No crowds anymore. No mourners.

The fence was completely covered in hand written notes. Covered with small and large stuffed animals. With ribbons. With every sort of memorial token you can imagine. Boots. Sneakers. Pairs and singles. Wilted flowers.

But there was one memorial tacked to the fence that day that I will never forget.

There was a small piece of wood, with a pair of worn leather gloves attached to it. The gloves had holes in them. They were burned and torn and scarred. They were attached to the board with two simple wood-screws driven through them into the wood. Someone had used a woodburning tool to hand-inscribe a message on the board. It wasn’t written in fancy script. It looked like it was written with an unsteady hand. I cried as I read it.

I came and I dug until my hands bled. I am sorry, but I couldn’t save you all.

Those were the words of a volunteer rescuer who had been there that day, and apparently for days afterwards. I will never forget those words. Those words summed up the tragedy that was wrought by Timothy McVeigh more than anything for me.

And yet we seem to have learned so little from that day. Here we are, 15 years later, and the Tea Party protesters are marching on Washington carrying guns. Pastor Stan Craig of the Choice Hills Baptist Church declared that he was prepared to “suit up, get my gun, go to Washington, and do what they trained me to do.” Which sounds an awful lot to me like he is threatening to do just what Tim McVeigh did in Oklahoma 15 years ago.

This is not what this nation is about. We do not threaten to kill people, or blow things up, or commit other acts of senseless violence just because we lost an election. Just because our side doesn’t get its way this year. We are supposed to be a modern, civilized country.

In a modern, civilized country run by adults, we do not have grown men cry because they “dug until my hands bled.” We do not have people who are “sorry, but I couldn’t save you all.”

The Tea Party is now trying to call today (the anniversary of the bombing in Oklahoma) “Patriot Day.” As if Timothy McVeigh was a patriot. As if they, the Tea Party, are patriots. He wasn’t. They aren’t. He was a coward. They are cowards. They are small people without the basic understanding of what makes our society function.


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Hard To Argue With

Mar 29th

Posted by BlueEyes in Life

Christopher Hitchens makes some very good points. Really hard to argue that out of the last 100,000 years of human history (or 250,000, depending on whom you believe) God only decided to intervene in the last 3,000 or so years, and then only with the illiterate, barbaric, backwards folk (s)he did. Odd, really.

Watch for yourself.

Hitchens on what theists MUST believe

I can’t figure it out either.


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Alliance For Lupus Update

Mar 29th

Posted by BlueEyes in Health Care

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Alliance for Lupus Research
There has been much progress recently for people affected by lupus!
As you may know, earlier this month the FDA approved the first new lupus treatment in over 50 years, belimumab (trade name Benlysta®).  With this exciting news, we at the Alliance for Lupus Research (ALR) want to provide a discussion about some of the treatments available for those with lupus.
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In our most recent podcast, Treatments for Lupus, we spoke with Dr. Joseph Craft about common lupus therapies.*  Dr. Craft explains what various drug treatments are targeted to treat from a medical standpoint.  We also discuss where research is leading for potential drug therapies and why we must continue to fund critical research into the prevention and treatment of lupus, and ultimately a cure.  We hope you find this discussion useful in understanding more about typical lupus treatments currently being used and where research is pointing in the direction of potential medical care in the future.
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